"I Love You, Man", "Confessions of a Shopaholic", "Obsessed", "The Secret Life of Bees ", "Changeling", "Bride Wars" and if our eyes will still hold up: "The Accidental Husband", "Imagine That" and "Soloist" - 9 films in one day!!!!!!!!! A marathon of films on the first day of January, 2010 - right in our living room. The sponsor of this session is my only girl but my youngest son and I join as audience. At the back of my mind is the wishful thinking my two other boys are here with us too. Now it dawns on me that life will turn out like this sooner or later but in this case, sooner - my children are grown up and therefore it is time to let go.

The whole day of the first day of the year was spent just being at home - together. The films made us laugh together; cry together; smile together; shout together; sing and dance together. The messages of the films inspired us too.

How about your first day of the year? How did you spend it?

May this year be great, fantastic, prolific for every family all over the world.

The news is that the saying "once in a blue moon" happens anytime today, January 1 and on January 29, 2010, at least in the Philippines, experts say. There is no blue moon but for people in Albay, Legazpi, Philippines, if nature cooperates, they will see the "blue moon" because of the gravitational pull between the heavenly body and lava which produces the effect of seeing the moon covered with blue illusion. What a simplistic attempt at an explanation of a very complex happening but the point is there, to see the "blue moon" happens only "once in a blue moon" - once in a very long while.

Like "writing one's blogs" it also goes through "an international line" sort of effect. Teacher's teacher is writing this piece today, January 1, 2010, 8:59 in the morning, Philippine time but while it will get published, it will be credited for December 31, 2009 not January 1, 2010.

There are facts of life we must accept to maintain sanity. Anyways, they do not kill us rather open our horizons to the broader scope of life's realities, like the "blue moon" and "international line". So while we are talking about things that are very complicated to conceptualize but happen anyways, we better come up with all our wishes however improbable it may happen. Believe in the "blue moon" and "international line" results which may not occur instantly but will happen surely.

Let us close our eyes and open our hearts to the power of auto suggestion coupled with Divine Providence. . .

for Ayeng: that as the national media chief of Adel Tamano, she becomes instrumental in Sir Adel's win as one of the 12 Senators of the Republic of the Philippines; even as she goes on with her entrepreneurial successes with God's help and stays as the best "Ate" in the universe;

for Ben: that as a creative videographer, Atoy Martinez gives him more projects; even as the dream in me lives on that Ben decides to finish his studies or goes into alternative learning system because he is the best "kuya" in the world and he deserves only the best;

for Chevy: that as a call center agent, he reaches the pinnacle of achievement; even as he pursues his other interests and remains the best son in the whole galaxy;

for Bon: that he gets the best offers as a wedding photographer (see BonAserios.com); even as he zooms into the zenith of what God destines him to be and become and remains the "most malambing" son in the Milky Way; and

for Teacher's teacher and Malaybalayan: that her incoming 60th year of existence in this world marks greater things for her together with her family (her hubby Boni , Jr. included who is now with the Maker but guides the family from Up there): holistic achievement in the teaching profession, good health, more stable finances and a new house this year.


With your own list of wishes intact together we pray:

You alone, God, know our past, present and future . . .
You alone, God, know what is in our minds and hearts before we utter them aloud
You alone, God, know our pains and our joys especially those which are hidden . . .
You alone, God, know the nuances of our thoughts for words sometimes do not capture them.

Here are our wishes Father God, the others may not have been amply enunciated but You know.
Let these wishes guide us towards its fruition which can only happen with your help.
Let our energies emanate from you so that it magnetizes everything we do towards its completion.
Ultimately, let everything be according to your will so that when they do not materialize we know it is your will but it is for the better.

Accept our wishes, Father God and bless it just as we look forward and sail on this New Year: 2010!

Remember: "Once in a blue moon" your wishes come true so wish and pray.



This is our beloved doggie, Michael. My family: Ayeng, Ben, Bon, Chevy, Malaybalayan and Michael wish you my very important readers . .

It was published in Gold Star Daily dated December 30, 2009 that while 2010 is the Year of the Tiger, there are "only 3,200 tigers left in the wild". For obvious reasons, every part of the tiger can be exploited for gain: its skin can be used for fur and decorative purposes while the animal's body parts can be used for medicinal concoctions. The Prime Minister of Nepal, Madhav Kumar has pledged to establish a National Tiger Conservation Authority and Wildlife Crime Control Committee. Russia too will host a tiger preservation summit in Vladivostok in 2010, especially because Khabarovsk and Primorye regions are inhabited by 500 Amur tigers.

So the tale of the tiger is sad to note. However, initiatives are being done to save them from extinction. It is not therefore a hopeless case but a call for vigilance.

Similar cases have been manifested, e.g. tarsiers, whales, elephants, apes and others animals. May our collective consciousness and awareness become a loud and effective call to save the animals.

2010 is Year of the Tiger and so we hope Tigers thrive more in number, not fewer. . .

There are people we meet in life who are very organized. One time, I came near a table of one such person: all documents arranged according to order of urgency. The table was a sight to behold. Even the drawers which were opened looked so arranged what with all the contents clipped and labelled. This is one of my New Year resolutions: to be organized.

Next in line is to finalize our plan to construct a house. The whole year will be a year of forced savings. With so many who tried loaning from a "Love Housing Program" and finding it asking many requirements, the best solution is to save minimum of three or four thousand a month for a year or so and if religiously done, the amount is supposed to reach seventy-two thousand or ninety-six thousand pesos in two years. If I can make a go of this, it will not just be a resolution but a revolution. I am not very good at saving, you know.

Third in line is to painfully assess my life's journey. Now that I am approaching sixty, the reality of mortality is an issue I must come to grips with. My children are all grown and indeed it is true that there comes a time when you have to let go. Somehow, I stay in the background and offer them back to God who takes over from where I left off. Certainly, it will both be a resolution and a revolution.

Finally, I have to own the fact that I have up to 2015 to work as a teacher. By then I will be 65 years old. Imagine 65 years old. Only God knows of course how long we have on this earth so all I can do is hold on to the faith that God knows what is best for me. This portion is definitely part of a five year resolution . . . until further notice . . .

My beloved readers, this blogspot is fast becoming my "sounding board" or "think aloud journal". Whatever will become of it, rest assured, the intention is to share my inmost thoughts to jibe with yours. Where we think alike, I am humbled and confirmed and where we do not see eye to eye, take it with a grain of salt.

Fellow sojourners, how about you? Have you formulated your New Year resolution? or is it a revolution? One year duration or more?

Today is December 30, 2009 fast turning December 31: time for resolutions as we await January 1, 2010!!!

Whenever survey results are aired about the performance of Gloria Macapagal- Arroyo as President of the Philippines and with emphasis it is said that once again she gets negative mark, I find myself wanting to know who these respondents are. I would like to know if they know what performance is and whether or not they have performed well in their own jobs or state of life.

Being a teacher and President GMA knows this, we are regularly evaluated by our students. Without generalizing, there are students who give low marks due to the fact that they get low grades which in fact they deserve. There are students who give high rating to their teachers even if they receive low marks for as long as they learn from these mentors.

Similarly, who can deny the fact that President GMA has guided us through the financial crisis? Whether we like her or not, we have to give what is due her: high performance!

To President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo: Happy New Year and Good Luck to you new plan to become the congresswoman of Pampanga.

R.I.P.E. refers to Regional Impact Project on Environment. This project is pioneered by Eastern Mindanao Region, located in Daliaon, Toril, Davao, Philippines so there is always glow in our eyes when we talk about it. In fact, the Girl Scouts of the Philippines, National President, thenTeresita Choa, received in behalf of the Regional Headquarters its first ever International Award in Johannesburg, South Africa. Olave Award was made possible because of the R.I.P.E. undertaking of Barangay 7, Malaybalay, Bukidnon, Philippines which was declared First Place in Eastern Mindanao then recognized International awardee in Johannesburg, South Africa. Now, R.I.P.E. continues its thrusts through the MS. R.I.P.E. contest.

Congratulations to Ms. R.I.P.E. Bukidnon and her court, namely:

Janice Hera Salem: Ms. R.I.P.E. , Malaybalay City North

Rosalia Cutar : First Runner-up, Kalilangan
Teresita Rara: Second Runner-up, Malaybalay City East
Gertrudes Umahag: Third Runner-up, Maramag I
Elvira Micabalo: Fourth Runner-up, Kibawe
Aida Tan: Fifth Runner-up, Damulog

Rowena Jaffar: Ms. Love, Valencia I
Teresita Pamisa: Ms. Faith, Quezon II
Leticia Abon: Ms. Hope, Pangantucan
Nelia Melendez: Ms. Charity, Don Carlos
Marina Demata: Ms. Peace, Manolo Fortich II
Esmeralda Bentillo: Ms. Joy, San Fernando
Analyn Bragat: Ms. Wisdom, Quezon I
Josefina Acha: Ms. Humility, Libona
Karen Laranio: Ms. Purity, Malaybalay City South
Catherine Botanas: Ms. Generous, Manolo Fortich I
Josielie Paeste: Ms. Simplicity, Impasug-ong
Emelda Franco: Ms. Miss Unity, Cabanglasan

C o n g r a t u l a t i o n s!!!

At a time when our environment is crying for help; moaning for care and concern so that it can still do its job to protect Mother Earth, we are called to do, however little, our role to do something - be it through, Reuse, Recycle strategy or plant a tree, adopt a tree campaign.

December 3o, Wednesday, is the coronation of the beautiful ladies who give life to R.I.P.E., after which they will hold their Christmas celebration.

The afternoon will usher in "Balik Scouting" - GSP, Bukidnon Council's attempt to bring back the Girl Scouts, wherever they have built their bases and come home to Malaybalay, Bukidnon State University auditorium for a reunion, re-commitment to the Girl Scouting Movement.

W e l c o m e back Girl Scouts. "Once a Girl Scout, Forever a Girl Scout."

Miss R.I.P.E. Coronation, Christmas Celebration, "Balik Scouting" Rolled into One Great Gathering. . .

The more we keep abreast with the happenings while Christmas gives us days off - the more we hear of tragic events: 6 dead, 20 missing in Batangas ferry sinking; Mt. Mayon's impending eruption keeps everyone on its toes as to exactly when and what is expected this time; terror attempt aboard an airplane just when it landed in Detroit airport.

It is but inevitable that we pray for better things this New Year. Let 2009 be but please bless 2010. Let it be a year that brings good luck to all the families; more peace and harmony especially between parents and children.

Forthe New Year, Teacher's teacher wishes: more followers who will not just visit the blogspot but communicate more actively - give constructive comments; more links opened and if at all possible link with me first; upload videos to inspire and become more uphgraded in the technical aspect of blogging; use the blogspot to reach out to as far a place can be ane bridge gaps where it exists.

While Christmas was already complete with my loved ones around me, it became even better when we were able to go around and share our blessings with my siblings, my in-laws, my nephews and my nieces. The cousins had a grand time having their pictures taken by BonAserios and all along my eyese were twinkling with pride because Bon is my youngest son.

We shared leftovers and still nothing beats a family meal day after Christmas for as long as we spent time together. The young professionals had to bid each other goodbye because their respective jobs would take them to far places. My eyes turned misty myself when my two boys had to leave too because they have "photoshoot" already scheduled.

Other gatherings are lined up until the celebration of New Year's Eve. My thoughts wander for the events over the radio and tv are unfortunate: two shipping vessels collided in the sea around Cavite and up to now 24 victims are still not found; 6 Filipinos were killed in the Greek ship fire; Mt. Mayon still continues its high level of activity so the 10,000 evacuees have to stay put and pray that the local and national government will continue to provide their basic necessities and a 23 year old Nigerian named Abdul Mutallab ignited a small "device" hoping to sow terror in an airliner due to land in Detroit Airport.

Thus, every moment with your loved ones should be treasured: simple or elegant meal or leftovers. With love as the reason for the gathering, nothing beats the taste of food.

Usually, heroes do not like to be honored for that's what being a hero is all about - to "die" for someone without counting the cost. Humans, as we are however, we need recognition not for the fame but for others to be inspired and do the same. Our very own hero from the Philippines, Efren Penaflorida, related how difficult life was in a place where there was danger and poverty. Others have died in the course of the struggle but others were brought" back to life" and were guided by volunteers. His project was known as "pushcart" or "kariton" school and was giving education to the children for more than ten years.

Efren said this after receiving his trophy: "I praise God for every selfless Filipino, every child, every dedicated volunteer." To the children: "Please embrace learning for it will embrace you back."

There were ten heroes all over the world who were honored but we know it was Efren Penaflorida who bested them all. Now, teachers do not find it difficult to mention Efren as one good role model. In my own classroom, I requested my Peace Education students to research more about Efren's Dynamic Team Company. In fact during the Education Week of the College of Teacher Education, Bukidnon State University, some of them memorized the excerpts of Efren's talk which Efren delivered when he was declared CNN's Hero of the Year.

While we are in this gut-wrenching feeling not of disgust but of delight since we are inhaling the air of generosity and selflessness, we come back to where we are. Begin there. You are a hero in your own home however simple your role is.

May this season of Christmas light the darkness of despair and indifference. Thank you CNN for giving enough coverage to all the CNN heroes.

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