Teacher's teacher

"Journo" of GMA featured Nora Aunor and just viewing it brought us back to the years when the cinema only had Amalia Fuentes-Susan Roces; Vilma Santos and Nora Aunor tandems captured the hearts of the '70's - this blogger included.

 The years of idolizing the pairs were the years of learning how to look like them and compile pictures of them and dreaming to become stars like them someday. The same years taught the fans not to overdo looking up to them because they are after all- human beings prone to the same weaknesses we have. In fact we saw or hear how each of their lives went through ups and downs; successes and failures. Their lives taught us the difference between real and fiction; between reality and fantasy.

Today we hear of Amalia Fuentes contented as grandmother of Liezl-Albert Martinez kids. This blogger saw Amalia Fuentes in one of the branches of Power Books. Amalia is really beautiful even if she is past 60. This is also the aura of Susan Roces. Vilma Santos is now the governor of Batangas and remains star for all seasons. Nora Aunor may not be able to sing the way she used to but she is a "survivor" of life's trials and her beauty is best seen in her strength to bounce back.

The young people today have their own idols and they have a lot to choose from - what with singers,dancers, actors who have dazzling personalities. Visit www.bonaserios.com to see some photos of those who got married beautiful and handsome pairs who could have opted to become actors themselves but decided to tie the knot because of love.

There is nothing wrong with admiring someone else's beauty or fame. Just do not forget, you need not go far to "idolize" someone. Your parents are there. Your kuya or ate who is helping you - finish your studies. Your relatives and friends who have only your good future in mind. "Idolize" the right people but know when to distinguish the real from the unreal; reality from fantasy.  Know your hierarchy of values: God, family, friends, acquaintances.

One of my children gave me a poster which states: "Having a place to go is what makes a home; having someone to love is called a family."