The teacher in us should make us think we are first, persons who care . . .
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As the years of teaching become years of dealing with many kinds of young people who will become professionals someday, many thoughts come our way.
However the years have come and gone, however some bosses make or unmake some of your days, you always emerge stronger and more inspired. After all, you meet again these students-turned professionals and share their own stories of victories and failures.
There are groups of young learners who really cause you the headache but reflecting on it again and again, they are just still-in-the-soon to become student teachers and in this limbo, they are lost in the maze of requirements.
Tomorrow, there is a promise to be made when we meet these puzzled students in our care. We will let them know that teachers may say something to "hammer" some points strong enough to challenge them. There is never an intention to underestimate them just the hope they will do better. We will try to make it known teachers are first persons who care. While we are in this reflection mood, we visited a blog entitled The Best of Teachers Pay Teachers by Teacher Victoria. We left a comment and hope for an exchange of notes someday.
There are many opportunities to become an agent of change and to become a teacher is one of the best opportunities!
How do you deal with bosses whom you do not like at all?
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We are created equal but along the way, especially in our careers, we have bosses and with their presence, an additional baggage is thrashed on you. This gets more complicated when these bosses who are part of the system of management are those you do not like at all. So how do you deal with them?
Google articles give so many tips, some of which are directed to cubicle warriors. Outlast the boss, vent in a safe place and focus on your performance are some of the thought-provoking ways to get by.
But wait! why do we not like our bosses - not like as against hate - when they are just doing their jobs? This is the crux of the matter. The first reflection point always goes back to us. Are we sure we are the only ones who feel this way? What if the bosses do not also like us. Can you imagine their dilemma too? So this is the way to handle the feeling: feel for the other party and before you know it, the intensity of not liking the boss is greatly minimized.
Feelings are real and fickle so we should not put so much intensity on it. Ventilate. Experience your catharsis but always, get the proper perspective. Bosses need the same ventilation and catharsis. If only we see this then we need not dislike them too much.
The last point is in order. If the focus is on you and not on your boss: your performance and not on the face of your boss, life becomes bearable. Diplomacy can work hand in hand with your new found course of action.
How do you deal with bosses whom you do not like? Deal with yourself first and before you can entertain the negative feeling, you have overcome it after all. Life is more than all the bosses in the world who do not deserve the best in you. Smile fellow workers!
The day is what you make of it but some days just make you!
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Nowadays life seems to pass by faster and difficult to keep pace. Life is teaching us to slow down and "smell the roses" so to speak. If it is possible, take the time out to go on retreat somewhere in the mountains - if it is still possible. Perhaps it comes more urgently for the elderly like some of us have found ourselves in.
Once in a while there are holidays that come in a row and a weekend before it so four (4) days are a treat. The days could have been the days to make a go of many things that were left unattended for quite a time but as it happened the days just made the time for us. When would these moments come again would be one of those "miracles".
Here is one who wishes all teachers would have all the time for their organic gardens and blogging without a thought where their next salary would come from. We can dream all the time, can't we?
For our Muslim brothers and sisters: Eid ul fitr or Eid'l Fitr 2011 - according to our sources, this a very special holiday their joy is compared to what Christians feel during Christmas Day!
For the country: President Pinoy leaves for China on a 5-day visit. Spratlys issue is up for discussion other than possibilities for more investments.
For the Japanese: a new Prime Minister in the person of Yoshihiko Noda.
Many good things are happening in a day's time and like any good thing, our hopes are high that better things lay ahead! We do pray for better things what with Hurricane Irene in the United States, Mina in the Philippines, another typhoon in Taiwan. Everywhere you look on tv, there seems to be disaster. Now, the world has really become so small and we really feel that the world is fragile and every person in the planet is vulnerable. Imagine, it is no longer landslide in Baguio but trashslide - the onslaught of a mountain of trash to where people reside somewhere in the vicinity. The sight in Baguio is not an isolated case; we have to look at our own landfill and find out if it is safe or just waiting for a week-long rainy session for it to come crumbling down literally to your doorstep!
Let us offer both the good and the bad. This reminds us of the short stay we have on this earth so if we can do something good, do it now!
Heroes are here today, were in the past and will be in the future. . .
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Today, August 29, is a holiday for the workforce. Already there were symbolic rites held in Taguig Rizal - where President Pinoy gave honor to all the Philippine heroes. Usually however, we call these heroes, heroes of the past.We always honor Dr. Jose Rizal, our national hero; Andres Bonifacio, Great Plebian and Father of the Katipunan; General Gregorio del Pilar, Hero of the Battle of Tirad Pass. Regardless of time we know these heroes gave us freedom and independence.
Today, heroes, according to Psychology Today (and we agree!) heroes are those who have the willingness to make sacrifices for the benefit of others. This might be a very loose meaning given to heroes but it is one that has relevance to what we continue to do: to care for our loved ones without counting the cost. In connection with this site, some advanced the notion that for them teachers are the heroes of today. This remark makes me smile and to a certain extent we agree. Teacherallherlife agrees that the many years of teaching could not have lasted so long if not for the promise of serving the young minds and through them provide the country with the leaders of tomorrow. Also we realize that because we are teachers, we make it a point to rear our own children as good citizens which indirectly point to the fact that their mother and father are "heroes" for them. If teachers are considered heroes, parents are greater heroes. Who can question their willingness to make sacrifices for the benefit of their children. Precisely because they take care of their children that some would discredit their being heroes because it is expected of them to take care but we know better. We too will say without a doubt that we consider our parents heroes.
The heroes of the future will have to be treated more kindly. Anyone and everyone can become heroes for as long as they live for the betterment of others. These heroes might not be declared by organizations but then that is not the point of being heroes. The point is to live a life that considers the situation of others, especially those who do not have anybody to defend them. You are heroes of the future if you do not consider heroes today or in the past. You are as important as the heroes.
Much can be said about heroes but what matters the most is that heroes are not statues but real living peple who care and are concern for the freedom and independence of others.
United States is bracing itself for the coming of Irene (my daughter's name is Irene!) so what are the preparations? Who is Irene? Sorry, but this is one instance the coming is not welcome, what with Irene called the "hurricane of historic proportions". Every channel you view has its strong winds and huge waves plastered all over the areas.
When things like this happen, it is not difficult to expect other catastrophes join in: typhoons or fires. It is only during these fearful and traumatic scenarios that man resorts to prayer. This too is what this blogger can offer to those who will be hit along the paths of destruction.
Just moments ago, our home was visited by strong winds and rain. My favorite garden umbrella got ripped and we waited for other objects to fall or get deformed but just as quickly the winds and rain came, suddenly it stopped! After we collected the debris and the torn garden umbrella, all we could do was sigh and utter some words of gratitude nothing major happened.
Asa teacher, events like this, become points of reflection about the many trials that haunt us every other day or month or so. While we go through these low moments of our life, nothing seems to make us smile or laugh yet just when we give up or offer all these thunderstorms that take away our prized possessions, the gloom disappears. Others even take the loss as reminders of the temporary nature of our lives on earth. Others emerge victorious after the hurricanes of life.
To Americans and other fellow journey companions, let us think positively and believe all these things will come to pass. . .
The years of idolizing Amalia-Susan; Vilma-Nora: Filipino actresses
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"Journo" of GMA featured Nora Aunor and just viewing it brought us back to the years when the cinema only had Amalia Fuentes-Susan Roces; Vilma Santos and Nora Aunor tandems captured the hearts of the '70's - this blogger included.
The years of idolizing the pairs were the years of learning how to look like them and compile pictures of them and dreaming to become stars like them someday. The same years taught the fans not to overdo looking up to them because they are after all- human beings prone to the same weaknesses we have. In fact we saw or hear how each of their lives went through ups and downs; successes and failures. Their lives taught us the difference between real and fiction; between reality and fantasy.
Today we hear of Amalia Fuentes contented as grandmother of Liezl-Albert Martinez kids. This blogger saw Amalia Fuentes in one of the branches of Power Books. Amalia is really beautiful even if she is past 60. This is also the aura of Susan Roces. Vilma Santos is now the governor of Batangas and remains star for all seasons. Nora Aunor may not be able to sing the way she used to but she is a "survivor" of life's trials and her beauty is best seen in her strength to bounce back.
The young people today have their own idols and they have a lot to choose from - what with singers,dancers, actors who have dazzling personalities. Visit www.bonaserios.com to see some photos of those who got married beautiful and handsome pairs who could have opted to become actors themselves but decided to tie the knot because of love.
There is nothing wrong with admiring someone else's beauty or fame. Just do not forget, you need not go far to "idolize" someone. Your parents are there. Your kuya or ate who is helping you - finish your studies. Your relatives and friends who have only your good future in mind. "Idolize" the right people but know when to distinguish the real from the unreal; reality from fantasy. Know your hierarchy of values: God, family, friends, acquaintances.
One of my children gave me a poster which states: "Having a place to go is what makes a home; having someone to love is called a family."
A classroom is a place where the teacher and the students meet to do many things. Basically, the main task is for the teacher to teach with all her mind, heart and soul. In the same vein, the main task of the learners is to participate in the process of teaching such that they are learning the facts of life. Some of the experiences that both parties experience are not always wholesome because they have their own agenda. When their intentions clash, especially in a college setting, conflict and misunderstanding are bound to happen. This is the present dilemma of Teacherallherlife and to go through the pain is part of the solution.
Eldely Blues and Blows suggests to begin again so this is certainly what Teacherallherlife will do today. A saying was shared here in an earlier blog: " Teachers like leaves, everywhere abound; effective teachers, like fruits, are rarely found." In connection with the challenge to begin again, effective teachers will not find it hard to do this. Let us all be effective teacher today; let us begin again!
From our end as teachers, we always try to do better everyday and avoid the pitfalls of a classroom dilemma but there are always points why things happen. The other end where the students are, have to be considered whatever it is. Somewhere a compromise can be reached and together the two parties who are really the components of the educative process have to begin again.
Together with Elderly Blues & Blows, Teacherallherlife, we commit this A23 challenge: Begin again.
August 21 is an important event for it ignited the anger that the Filipinos suppressed in their hearts. By ignited is meant that even Martial law could no longer stop the filipino from going to the streets and shouted for freedom and liberation from the then Marcos regime. It reminds us of what one man, Benigno Aquino fondly called Ninoy, husband of Cory Aquino, our deceased first lady president and father of our present president,Benigno "Noynoy" Aquino, can do to a people who almost hope for better things to come. Ninoy's words will always inspire us to think good of the filipino for he defended if with his life when he uttered the words: "The filipino is worth dying for."
It is surprising that August 21 is not declared a holiday. Perhaps someday very soon what with the Aquino clan giving us the best testimonies of how to love our country. The mere mention of Cory is tantamount to honoring the freedom she gave back to our country just as the mere mention of Ninoy is the epitome of heroism just when heroes are thought of as mere statues to be remembered like in the books.
Thank you Ninoy and Cory for the lives that we hope to emulate. Thank you for being the good parents that you were to your children. We, who have children, find comfort in the fact that good parenting is always the best way to help our country. Would you believe, I have 3 boys who have not decided to marry yet and I want to believe it is because they want to be prepared when the right woman come along. So when our bachelor president,Noynoy, finally meets the One, he has some decision to make
For someone like me who hopes to try politics after retirement from active employment, the warning is already up front: unless it is meant to be, better ask for some sign for like Cory she never wanted the limelight yet when she had to become president because the people wanted her to lead the country, she adamantly accepted. She had one beautiful thing going for her: she wanted to serve in the real sense of the word. She did not become another person to please the people around her. Ninoy must have supported her all along for up to the time she vacated the presidency, she left it with the same dignity as she entered it. Not many presidents can follow what Cory did.
Now we are celebrating the 28th death anniversary of a man who has left a legacy of a family worth emulating by every filipino clan.Thank you Ninoy for a life worth living for! Our prayers for your everlasting happiness with the Maker and our Father God.
Teacherallherlife views AXN's "The Voice" interspersed with Net 25's Footprints, Fox News portion on Religion's Role in Politics and Lotus Macau's film on Fugitive . . .
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What we really want to say is that with fifty (50) channels given by Parasat (which they say should even be more!) there is much to learn from and much to teach about.
Cristina Aguilera is a refreshing sight to behold being one of the judges in the new addition of AXN, The Voice. Cee Lou Shelton, Adam , Blake as the other judges are supposed to form their own group of 8 and from them choose the best voice. A 2-hour show it is difficult to follow but we will intersperse our viewing with it as it goes on showing.
Net 25's Footprints had for this Sunday night presentation the way charcoal is prepared from garbage. Tv episodes, like this, are man's ways of taking care of Mother Earth especially now that she is really wailing for protection.
Fox News is really a channel to watch if you like many harsh comments about Obama Administration. This particular episode however shows a priest who comments about Religion's Role in Politics and as always this comment demands varied reactions.
The channel to watch is ch 50 (lotus Macau) in our cable. You are sure to view films which are worth your night time: a rerun of Godfather, Air Force 1 and now The Fugitive. Harrison Ford and Tommy Lee ones make your night with their acting. If the new program on "The Voice" is intricate so is "The Fugitive". The pain of trusting a friend and be disillusioned by t because this so-called best friend really killed your wife. Being fugitive for a cause even The Feds led by Jones was treated to the truth that was difficult to surface.
Not to be forgotten is EWTN especially now that the Pope, Benedict XVI is is Spain for the World Youth Day celebration. My children are reminded of the one time when they too wanted to join one world day celebration, that time in Germany, but all the wrong intentions of the so-called recruits, made it one of those sad learning experiences. Even those that are supposed to be religious are affected by the intentions of the not so religious who use events to earn extra money. The usual saying comes into the picture: "Money is the root of all evils".
Tv viewing is one of the motions this blogger never gets tired doing, especially now that one of her blogs is "Elderly Blues & Blows."
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