Cynicism has become a common trait of modern man. Am sure the cynics who are watching the on-going procession today, January 9, (Saturday) of 2.4 - 3 million Filipinos, from Quirino Grandstand to Quiapo are wondering why there are so many who join it. This is not to say that even those who aren't cynics do not have the same reaction. So we ask: why are their devotees who go to such length whether for the Black Nazarene or another feast like Easter?

One explanation: Believers express their faith not only through word but through action as well especially when the feast is being celebrated. When Pope Paul VI came to the Philippines in the '70's, we, the catechists, began our vigil for the Pope's visit at dawn. When the Vicar of Christ was finally in front of us - of me - I cried and cried with joy. My feeling was that Jesus appeared before me. This leads us to the next point.

Second explanation: Filipinos, once they put their heart, are willing to die for the cause. They sometimes forget the danger that may arise. In this procession, a number got hurt, 400 plus have been hospitalized. So far, two died. Such fervor perhaps can be redirected for something more productive.

Third explanation: Today is only one day so I join some analysts who acknowledge the beautiful expression of one's faith but after the procession, what is next? Will the believers go back to their usual routine? Is their devotion part of their daily means of livelihood? If it is, then one's devotion to the Black Nazarene is indeed faith in action.

Let us not forget that God is not only felt during procession but in the most ordinary experience of life. The Statue of the Black Nazarene is a statue but the faith of the devotee goes beyond the statue and experiences the symbol who is Jesus, the Nazarene. We have only to look around to see the faces of the members of our family. Do you take care of their needs if you are a parent? If you do, it is as though you have your own procession too which lasts a lifetime.

The President of Bukidnon State University, Dr. Victor Melendez Barroso, is turning 65 years old on January 12. Today, January 8, he has invited all the teachers to have snacks with him and his family, his better half, Dr. Remedios T. Barroso at his side. While this is being done every time our president celebrates his birthday, this time it will be different because he will be reaching some crossroad: life beyond 65 and an extended stint still as President of BSU!

Birthdays are reminders of the time we were born; how far we have done with the years of our life and with the remaining years, if gifted with more, view it as "new leashes of life" for the better. It should also be a time to "pay forward" in any way. As we are already well aware, some do not look at birthdays this way such that they remain the cranky, selfish and uncooperative persons they have always been before their birthdays.

To celebrants, therefore, Teacher's teacher dedicates some excerpts of a poem which state:

"Today, well lived, makes every yesterday, a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of hope. Look well therefore to this day. Such is the salutation to the dawn."

Sometimes we tell God how unfair He can be. Here is a girl, who is beautiful, graduate of a university in France, a model, an actress, the daughter of Sharon Cuneta. How can she have so much while many can hardly go to school, does not have a job if by chance she finished a course because she has no connection . . .? Then we hear and see that this lady gifted with so much wants to pay forward by extending her commitment as United Nation's World Food Programme national ambassador against hunger. Good decision KC. . .

With very few role models our young people can look up to, we are happy to note KC Concepcion Cuneta Pangilinan is doing her share. It is worth noting that we are in fact doing our share too, though not as publicized as KC's is. If you are a volunteer, keep up the good work.

Efren Penaflorida, CNN Hero of the Year, is a filipino, who tells us candidly he did not begin the "push cart school" but that he had good mentors who helped him follow the better path and so he volunteered his time to continue the "push cart" school while being aided to finish his education in Cavite State University. In the acceptance speech of Efren during the Award ceremony for the ten heroes, he encouraged us to "unleash the hero within us" for each of us is a hero and together we can become the change.

To my students in Peace Education and NSTP 2 (Community Immersion) you are now given the opportunities to "unleash" the hero that each of you truly is. Seize the Day!!!

Johnson products are noted for its wholesome ads: mother-child photo with the mom putting Johnson powder all over the baby's body as manifestation of tender loving care; family using Johnson products: shampoo, lotion,cotton and many more. Yet, the heir of Johnson & Johnson, Casey Johnson, the lady who has everything, dies at 30. While we do not have the power to judge Casey, we are left wondering why she had a history of drug problems and why even her relationship was that of another woman. . .

This is another human story which tells us very vividly that our aspirations are basically the same. One can be rich but the desire for belongingness and love are the same with someone who is financially challenged. Wealth or fame does not determine our happiness. Everything we possess should only be used as means never ends.

Thus, Casey may have everything financially speaking but perhaps she did not have the emotional and pychological support that come only with families who give quality time to family gathering and one-on-one follow-up. Just the same, Casey is a fellow pilgrim who needs our prayer and plea for her eternal repose with her God.

As a mother, it is painful to hear from your child that there are relatives who blemish the name of the clan by being a gossip, a rumor mongerer and pinhead (you can add to the list). Trusting that in time the "truth will always come out" and that the "truth always sets us free", you hear your child relate that this time this relative who is a gossip, rumor mongerer, pinhead personified is no longer connected with the office mainly because her presence was more a liability than an asset. There were occasions when the protector in me wanted to wage that "war" in behalf of my child. Then, the teacher and fifty plus in me were enough to stop the "evil plan". To let the scenario, expand, you hear your child share that there are employees, either from the province or the city, who do not spend their time paid by tax payers' money accordingly; for the gossip, rumor mongerer and pinheads among them use office time just to gossip, rumor monger or act as pinhead. To make matters worse, these people include your child among their victims and once again, we, the parents would like to attack these bad elements and give them their own dosage of harm and destruction. Once again, the educated side of us gets the better of our hot temper and offer it as part of life's trial."Vengeace is not ours for the law of karma prevails."

For the sake of discussion and reflection, ask yourself: Are you the gossip, the rumor mongerer or the pinhead we are referring to? If you are, ask again: Why are you one? We tell you now, this 5th of January 2010, you might no longer be lucky next time. If I were you, change your ways and even in silence, ask forgiveness from God,maybe not yet to the person you have hurt and in time, the wounds you have inflicted may just heal.

2009 is a long gone, let 2010 be a new beginning: "Go placidly amid the noise and haste and remember what peace there may be in silence . . . Keep peace with your soul. With all the sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy."

For quite a number of years now, Teacher's teacher is able to receive a calendar from Land Bank through Rica Joy Guillermo Aguilar. The bank's calendar is always displayed in prominent places because its design is really well thought of. It is no wonder then that the calendar of 2010 is another piece of art. Have you seen it?

For us in the academe especially those who teach Peace Education, Agriculture and its related fields, Social Studies, perhaps Literature,can find in this year's calendar a good instructional material. On its cover it states: " . . . Landbank's 2010 calendar takes us to the heart of some of the country's forests to give us a closer view of six species of trees commonly grown - in our hopes to encourage one and all to plant and propagate trees of every kind. . . Landbank urges us to listen closely to the murmurs echoing in the country's forests and heed their call for preservation; for if we only do as much as listen to the wind, we would hear them beckoning us to do our share."

Teacher's teacher has a son who is a photographer (Remember the blog in Malaybalayan where www.BonAserios.com photographs Malaybalayan?) so we will solicit his feedback about the healthy seedling which stands small at the moment and gradually grows tall, taller and tallest either as Narra, Agoho,Mahogany, Mangium, Bagras or Falcata trees.

The quotations cited by Landbank are worth noting: "There is always music amongst the trees in the garden, but our hearts must be very quiet to hear it. - Minnie Aumonier". "He who plants a tree, plants a hope - Lucy Larcom"

To Landbank Management: Congratulations for a super calendar which gives not only months and numbers but also deep ideas and ideals urgently needed by every Filipino.

Have you seen Landbank's calendar of 2010?

Almost all schools resumed classes today, January 4, 2010. In Bukidnon State University, College of Teacher Education, we did. So, "classes resume; students assume; teachers presume." With a situation like this, the focus now is to prepare for Mid-term examinations. The students must assume their main duty to prepare for mid-term examinations which will be given next week. The teachers presume the course coverage is set for an assessment.

Yet inside the classrooms, teachers sensed that the students still had the "christmassy look" such that the teachers had to take the cue to bring them back to the academic pursuit of scholarly discussion. In our case, we spoke about New Year's resolutions in the context of critiquing one's plans as a writer, as a peace advocate or as community organizer. Somehow the strategy worked.

The news tells us about what is happening around the world and teachers incorporate all these in the lessons. The following are good points for discussion:

"Towering Achievement" of Dubai by constructing the tallest building in the world;

Mt. Mayon in Albay Legazpi, Philippines, decides not to erupt after all, so evacuees go back to their homes;

Preventing terrorist attacks through stricter security rules for travellers;

MetroManila Film Festival raised millions: did you view one?;
Bold
Las Vegas Shooting in a Federal Court; Gunman killed

The rumored film about the Maguindanao Massacre for sale; copies were confiscated.

Teaching, indeed, does not "leave any stone unturned" if in the process the students ask questions, give comments, formulate summary statements. Teachers try their very best to facilitate the learning environment but are aware of the difficulties that they have to endure if they really want to put more action than words.

Well, "classes resume; students assume; teachers presume." Francis Keppel says: "Education is too important to be left solely to the educators."

How do I cope with being alone?

Who was it who said that "being alBoldone" is the way we came to this world so it is a fact of life we must accept. However, as we go on with the business of living, we gradually come to terms with our needs, one of which is to reach out and make friends. Of the many people we come in contact with, there are others who really make us vow never to be with them but in the same vein of realization there are those who really make us bloom and allow us to trust them completely. Of this group, we sift more and more until we zero in on someone. By then, you have learned to categorize the people around you: acquaintances, fair-weather friends, genuine friends and the love of your life.

We presented the aforementioned as though as a matter of fact. In reality, it is not as easy as narrated: for others can become your genuine friends or so you think but can become your enemies, God forbid. Some, you treated as acquaintances but through time, you got to know each other and true enough you are now "bff" (best friends forever).

Notwithstanding what has been said, you still have to cope with the question at hand: How do you cope with being alone? How? Teacher's teacher suggests the following:

One: Develop your personhood such that in the end, you know you are on your own;

Two: Love with all your head, with all your heart and love with the awareness you have to let go;

Three: There are three things we learned from an earlier blog: only three things last, faith, hope and love but the greatest of these is love; thus, view this question in the eyes of a believer, longing of a hope(r) and trust of a lover;

Fourth: Savor every moment of your life, alone or not, spend most of your time living, not existing. While you go on asking, spend more reflecting and thanking God for the gift of life.

How do you cope with being alone? For 2010, it is to cope period.







The kind of questions we raise, according to experts, says much about our personhood. Yet, it need not always be the higher order thinking kind of questions that we must focus on, otherwise the content tends to be more academic than personal. Questions, like, how's life today this second day of the new year, 2010? for example, sounds so ordinary and routinary yet it can mean everything.

How's life, for you, today this second day of the new year, 2010, is a question that encompasses the direction you may follow for the month or the whole year; or the heartbreakingnews you received throughout the day or the lifechanging note someone texted you or relayed to you by phone.

For the sake of discussion then we settle on the case in point: questions. For our main reference, the Scripture. Let us savor every word of 1 Corinthians 13:1-13 which we hope will be our guidepost this New Year, the unknown, incoming 2010:

Excellence of the Gift of Love: "If I speak with human tongues and angelic as well, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong, a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and, with full knowledge, comprehend all mysteries, if I have faith great enough to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give everything I have to feed the poor and hand over my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not jealous; it does not put on airs; it is not snobbish. Love is never rude; it is not self-seeking; it is not prone to anger; neither does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice on what is wrong but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to man's forbearance ; to its trust, its hope, its power to endure.

Love never fails. Prophecies will cease; tongues will be silent; knowledge will pass away. Our knowledge is imperfect. When the perfect comes, the imperfect will pass away. When I was a child I used to talk like a child, think like a child, reason like a child. When I became a manI put childish ways aside. Now we see indistinctly, as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. My knowledge is imperfect now; then I shall know even as I am known. There are in the end three things that last: faith, hope and love and the greatest of these is love."


These verses always remind us of the values in life that withstand the test of time. Perhaps this new year, 2010, whatever questions may arise in our lives: think 1 Cor. 13:1-13 and definitely, in the end, only three things matter whatever the question is; questions on faith, hope and love and the greatest of these is love.

This second day of January 2010: how's life today really means: Do you believe? Do you hope? and Do you love? If your answers are in the affirmative: You are in the right path of life. Sail on!

"I Love You, Man", "Confessions of a Shopaholic", "Obsessed", "The Secret Life of Bees ", "Changeling", "Bride Wars" and if our eyes will still hold up: "The Accidental Husband", "Imagine That" and "Soloist" - 9 films in one day!!!!!!!!! A marathon of films on the first day of January, 2010 - right in our living room. The sponsor of this session is my only girl but my youngest son and I join as audience. At the back of my mind is the wishful thinking my two other boys are here with us too. Now it dawns on me that life will turn out like this sooner or later but in this case, sooner - my children are grown up and therefore it is time to let go.

The whole day of the first day of the year was spent just being at home - together. The films made us laugh together; cry together; smile together; shout together; sing and dance together. The messages of the films inspired us too.

How about your first day of the year? How did you spend it?

May this year be great, fantastic, prolific for every family all over the world.

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